It’s been the complaint of reality dating shows since the beginning of time. Or whenever The bachelor first aired, depending on which happened first. This person is not here for love, he just wants to be famous! They’re not there for the right reasons (TM)! Many such cases, the latest being that Love is blindby Nick Dorka. During the season 7 reunion, his ex, Hanna Jiles, claimed to have found his 90 Day Goals diary. One item on it read: ‘Be the most famous person ever Love is blind.” Dude, you’re never even going to be the most famous Nick. Dorka claimed the goal was written ‘long before’ he appeared on the show. Okay, that’s sadder? Dream something bigger! In the words of Mary Lamb The survivors, “You can’t even dream a whole dream, can you?”

“I would never sit there in front of the camera and say I love you a hundred times if I didn’t mean it. I was super sincere,” he said. But Jiles wasn’t swayed from her opinion that Dorka never came on the show to find a partner. She called him “very calculated” and also said he had called her a “grenade,” “ugly” and “5/10” behind her back. Some men claimed that Nick called Hannah a “grenade” around them. Nick denied the ‘grenade’ comment and then admitted he was ‘disappointed’ when he first saw Hannah.