Ben Stiller has a bone to pick with Jimmy Fallon.

Appears on The tonight show in the clip above, the Disconnection director talks about his recent trip to the theater with Fallon to watch Cole Escola’s Oh Marywhere the couple apparently had a nice time together.

“I felt like we had a connection, and then a few days later, you know, you kind of ghosted me,” Stiller says. “A little bit. I just didn’t really hear from you, and it just felt kind of annoying, you know? I felt like you kind of got what you wanted, you had your arm candy on the show (… ) it just kind of felt like boom, bam, thanks Ben Stiller.”

Fallon denies the ghosting allegations and talks Disconnectionbut even that subject is not safe.

“He goes to work and when he comes back, he forgets everything that happened,” Stiller says, summing up the show’s main thrust. “Kind of like when you and I went to the play the other day.”