Brianna “Chickenfry” LaPaglia opens up about how her 2024 Golden Globes experience was allegedly “ruined” by her ex-boyfriend Zach Bryan.

In the latest episode of the BFFs podcast – in which LaPaglia claims she was emotionally abused by the country music star and is asked to sign a non-disclosure agreement (something she claims she refused) – the podcast host also claimed he tried to influence what she wore and her presence at social media .

Representatives for LaPaglia and Bryan did not immediately respond to PEOPLE’s request for comment.

“That was fucking crazy. That was the first time he really tried to control what I wore and what I posted,” she recalled. “So I went to the Golden Globes and posted like a carousel of pictures, and he didn’t like my dress.”

“He said he didn’t want to date someone who presented himself like that. And he unfollowed me, he unfollowed everyone, and I… when I flew home – I flew home from the Golden Globes. He ruined my night,” LaPaglia continued.

The influencer continued, “Everything good, everything good I did for me, he made sure to ruin it for me. He ruined my birthday, he ruined my tour, he ruined the Golden Globes. Everything Brianna did for Brianna, he had to ruin it. It.”

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She claims everything was “going so well” the night of the event, until she sent him pictures. “At first he’s really happy, but then suddenly it turns into, ‘I can’t believe you’re wearing this… blah blah blah blah.’ ”

“It ruins the night. I cry to Grace (O’Malley) all night and he unfollows me because of the dress. He tells me all the Instagram photos I have that I have to delete, and I think, ‘Okay, yeah, I guess.’ He makes me believe that I have to change my image to keep up with his or something,” LaPaglia continued, saying she felt like she was “twisted in the head.”

After LaPaglia said she was portrayed as having “my nipples and my pussy out,” the “icing on the cake” saw him repost a photo of her at the Golden Globes to his Instagram Stories.

“He reposted that photo of me on his story and said, ‘You’re so beautiful.’ While behind the scenes I was freaking out and unfollowing all of us, unfollowing me. It was just such a tug of war with my emotions in my head,” she said.

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LaPaglia and Bryan made their relationship public in July 2023. They dated for over a year before he confirmed their divorce in October.